Togetherness Part 1

God’s people have always been abused!

OT Saints

  • Read Hebrews 11:32-40

The Apostle Paul

  • 2 Corinthians 11:23-33
  • Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-12

The Early Church

God’s Vantage Point Trusting God with your Future

Faith or Fear – It’s all about Perspective!
  • Mordecai’s fear – death/eradication
    • Read Esther 3:1-6,13-15
    • Life situations can lead us to be perplexed!
  • Esther’s fear – death/eradication
    • Read Esther 4
    • She knew that she could be killed by going in front of the king unannounced Read more…

Vantage Point – Trusting God Now

Naomi without a husband or sons (The Book of Ruth)

  • A famine caused the family to leave their home and move to a foreign land (1:1).  
  • Her husband died (1:3).
  • Her son’s married foreign wives and 10 years later they died (1:4-5).  Her situation was bleak and she said… Read more…

Vantage Point – Trusting God with our past

Joseph’s Family Problems:

  • Jacob’s favoritism to Rachel/Joseph led to family strife. Jacob learned this trait from his parents
    • Genesis 37:3
    • Colossians 3:21
  • His mother’s death giving birth to Benjamin – 35:16-20 (I wonder if Benjamin felt guilt over this?)
  • The brother’s envy turned to hatred and ended up selling Joseph into slavery and deceiving their father so he would believe Joseph was dead!
    • Hebrews 12:14-15
    • Ephesians 4:31
  • Rueben not finishing the job of taking care of the younger brother then playing along with the charade of Joseph’s death. – 37:18-35


Joseph’s personal problems stemming from this:

  • Pressure of being the favored son! – 37:4
  • Lost his life and made a slave! – 37:28-30
  • Lied about and put in prison! – 39:13-20
  • Told that he wouldn’t be forgotten, but was forgotten for another 2 years! – 40:23-41:1

Recap of Joseph’s life:

  • His mother died when he was young
  • He was 17 when sold into slavery (37:2)
  • He was 30 when made a ruler (41:46)
  • He was 37 when drought happened (41:54)
  • He was 39 when his brothers came (45:6)
  • Total = 22 years away from his family!


The Effect

  • On the brothers: Everyday that the brothers saw Jacob; they must have been overwhelmed with guilt! The brothers declare their guiltGen 42:21
  • On Jacob – He was devastated – Gen 37:34-35
  • On Joseph – He suffered, but it seems that he did not get bitter! When he saw his brothers 22 years after being sold, he wept! (42:24, 43:40, 45:2)
  • He did make the statement: “For indeed I was stolen away out of the land of the Hebrews: and here also have I done nothing that they should put me into the dungeon.” (40:15)

The Reality

  • Our past is filled with things that we have done that can cause guilt/regret (like Joseph’s brothers); or things that have been done to us that can lead us in a pattern of resentment and bitterness.
  • Are You Stuck in the Past? Do you have guilt or regret or bitterness for things that have happened in the past?
  • Read Hebrews 11

Looking from God’s Vantage Point and choosing the right way to process the past:


Understanding guilt:

  1. We are all guilty because of Adam
    1. Romans 3:10, 23, 5:12
  2. Our guilt/sin showed us that we need Christ
    1. Galatians 3:24 (law showed our need)
  3. Christ freed us from the grip of guilt
    1. Romans 6
  4. When we do sin, it grieves the Holy Spirit and causes remorse and guilt
    1. Ephesians 4:30

What to do with Guilt:

  1. Acknowledge it
    1. Proverbs 28:13
  2. Confess and repent
    1. 2 Corinthians 7:9-10
    2. Romans 2:4
  3. Confess to others if needed
    1. James 5:16
  4. If needed, make restitution
    1. Luke 15:11-32
    2. Luke 19:8

Understanding God’s Forgiveness:

  • God’s nature is to forgive!
    • Psalm 86:5
  • When God forgives, He forgives completely!
    • Psalm 103:10-12
  • We are no longer under the wrath of God
    • Romans 5:8-9
  • Cost Him much!
    • 1 Peter 1:17-19


Practicing Godly Forgiveness:

  • Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God
    • Colossians 3:13
  • Forgiveness gives the offender what he needs, not what he deserves
    • 1 Corinthians 13:10
  • Forgiveness is a promise not to keep a record of wrongs suffered
    • 1 Corinthians 13:4-13
  • Forgiveness means that we wont gossip about the offender
    • Ephesians 4:29
  • When we forgive, we will not dwell on the offense any longer. It is not forgetting, but it is choosing not to hold it against the person
    • Philippians 4:8


God’s Sovereignty with your past:

How does God see all the things that happen in our life?  After all that Joseph went through, he told his brothers God used their actions to “preserve life” (

Genesis 45:5).  At the end of his life, he said God used their evil for good to save many (Genesis 50:20


He Must!

“Now upon the first day of the week, very early in the morning, they came unto the sepulchre, bringing the spices which they had prepared, and certain others with them. And they found the stone rolled away from the sepulchre.  And they entered in, and found not the body of the Lord Read more…

The Seven Sayings of Jesus on the Cross

  1. Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. – Luke 23:34
  2. Verily I say unto thee, Today shalt thou be with me in paradise. – Luke 23:43
  3. Woman, behold thy son! Behold thy mother! – John 19:26,27  Read more…

The Prayers of Paul in Ephesians To Boldly Preach the Gospel

The Process of the Prayer in Ephesians 6:18-20

  1. “Praying always” = we should have a constant state prayer.
    1. Pray without ceasing” – 1 Thess. 5:17
  2. “In the Spirit” = what does God want and want us to pray for? Read more…

The Prayers of Paul in Ephesians To Know the Love of Christ

The Origin of Love

  • “We love him because he first loved us.” 1 John 4:19
  • “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.– John 3:16 Read more…

The Prayers of Paul in Ephesians To Know the Power of God

Believers are blessed with all spiritual blessings:
  1. God CHOSE us (Ephesians 1:4)
    1. God knows who is going to accept His salvation by Hisforeknowledge – 1 Peter 1:2. When you believe you are part of the elect! Read more…

Watching for Jesus’ Return

The Order of Things to come (basic outline)
• The rapture of the church (Rev. 4:1-2, 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18)
• The 7 year “Great Tribulation” period (Revilation 5- 18)